Do you love money?
More importantly, does money have more control over you than you have of it?
If so, you aren’t alone.
In fact, you are in good company with yours truly…
There was a period in my life when money controlled my decisions, controlled my daily routines, and controlled my happiness…
I traded everything for money such as:
It makes me sad knowing how much I sacrificed just to make more money (that I had no real plan for – I just knew I wanted more money).
I can still recall one period in my life when I would check my Charles Schwab account 7-10 times per day… Just to see what slight changes were happening each day with my stocks and 401k…
High On Money
If I made money for the day, I ended the day on a high note.
If I lost money for the day, I went home angry and depressed.
Looking back, it was incredibly sad how money was controlling my life.
So when I came across the parable of the Mexican Fisherman a few years ago, it really hit home for me.
In many ways, I was just like the Wall Street banker who was always trying to find ways to make more money, when I should have been more like the wise fisherman who could see the big picture (his purpose in life) much clearer.
Many times in life you already have everything you need, yet we continue to sabotage ourselves by working hard to end up right back where we already are. Many times with little to show for it except wrinkles and gray hair…
This powerful story also helped me slow down to ask important things such as:
- What’s the ultimate goal (aka “begin with the end in mind”)?
- Will this really make me happy long term (fulfilled)?
- Is there an easier and less stressful way to accomplish the same goal?
In all cases, there was a clear answer. I just had to look for it…
Enjoy the story of the Mexican fisherman and the Wall Street banker.
The Mexican Fisherman
(originally told by Heinrich Boll)
An American investment banker from Wall Street was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small old boat with just one fisherman came up and docked next to him.
Inside the small boat were several large yellowfin tuna and two mahi-mahi.
The American banker complimented the Mexican fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them.
The Mexican replied, “Not very long.”
The American then asked why didn’t he stay out longer and catch more fish?
The Mexican said he had enough to support his family’s immediate needs.
The American then asked, “But what do you do with the rest of your time?”
The Mexican fisherman said, “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siestas with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine, and play guitar with my amigos. I have a pretty full and busy life.”
The American scoffed at this reply and proudly said, “I am a Harvard MBA and could help you make a whole lot more money.”
“Here’s what you should do…” continued the banker.
“You should spend a whole lot more time fishing so you can sell more fish. And with the proceeds, you can buy a bigger boat.
With the proceeds from the bigger boat, you could buy several boats, eventually, you would have a fleet of fishing boats.
Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery.
You would control the product, processing, and distribution.
Eventually, you would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually New York City, where you will run your expanding enterprise.”
The Mexican fisherman asked, “But, how long will this all take?”
To which the American replied, “Probably 15 – 20 years.”
“But what then?” asked the Mexican.
The American laughed and said, “That’s the best part, my friend. When the time is right you would announce an IPO and sell your company stock to the public and you become very rich… you would make countless millions!”
“Millions – then what?”
The American said, “Then you would retire. Move to a small coastal fishing village where you would sleep late, fish a little, play with your kids, take siestas with your wife, stroll to the village in the evenings where you could sip wine and play your guitar with your amigos.”
What an awesome reminder to always slow down in life and make sure you can see the big picture that you are working towards.
So many times I have been guilty of working myself to death in order to hit some financial goal that really didn’t fit into my main mission in life.
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